Sally, this isn't a 'stockholm syndrome' situation.
Too often we will get men who try to justify the perverted or socially unacceptable aspects of a relationship they are having with a much younger female, by claiming they are trying to 'help' them.
I don't even remember the full details of this jerk and his 'GF" at this point.
Some of the girls posted here will occasionally recruit a new 'BF' to come here and try to get the info removed.
They show up her acting indignant, threatening, and full of crap.